A Woman's Dillema

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How hard it is to be a woman? A woman is an emotional person. We marry someone we thought as the one or the prince, or the knight in shining armor. Then we give birth, and the loving mother pours out all of her tender loving care to her child or children. A woman dreams of a perfect home, always making sure that the house is spic and span so her husband and children can live comfortably. A wife checks all the expenses and budgets for the household. A wife always checks that everyone has something to eat, something to wear, A woman can sacrifice her own life, her own time so to give time to husband and children. Then one day, the husband just left, without any warning. The house that the wife built and nourishes suddenly is crashing down. It came to her knowledge that the husband no longer wants to be with her and found someone else. It can be easier if she has no children. It is easier to just move on. But everytime the wife looks at her children, her heart just breaks. The kids that are being loved by their father will no longer have a complete family. The dream this family is gone. A simple dream that after a day's work, everyone will come home to be together. Eat dinner and tell stories. A picture that is so precious for every woman.

Now she just prepares for her kids' needs. Is it a less burden that there is no longer a husband to take care of? The dinner becomes quiet. No more happy stories to tell. The children go to bed and the wife is alone in her room.  A lot of questions in her mind but no matter how much she thinks, those questions will never be answered. No mater how much she blames herself for she thinks she might have not done good enough for him still it is not the best answer. How long does the heartache heal? No one even knows. Why did he even do it? Is he not happy with having a loving wife and beautiful children? What went wrong? Where?

Days passed. Months. Years. The wife thought she had forgotten all the pain and got used to it. But there are nights that;s just feel like everything happened yesterday. The pain is so fresh. The nightmare still haunts her. She is torn between holding on or giving up. She is a wife who promised to stand by her husband and also a mother who naturally protects her family and does everything to maintain the wholeness of the family. She can just give up and just be happy with what she have. What if one day, her husband came back, won't she be happy to see her family whole again? If she says no to him, is she not giving a chance for her family? How is it really to be a wife? A mother? A woman?


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